can we help by listening??

if you are always talking about the same things that are negative

friends around you will walk away
as you are spreading negative aura

good friends will come and listen to you
as you need a good listener
to release all your unsatisfactories

best friends will come and "slap" you
to wake you up and stop you
from enjoying the good feeling of being hurted


sometimes when your friends keep on talking about the same bad event that 'cannot' be solved (or they don't want to fix it), may be they are enjoying the feeling of being hurted.
think twice before you react, you are not helping them by just listening...