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Monday, August 18, 2008

Life style...

What type of like style that you prefer? Some might like to doing the same thing everyday and avoid changes in their lives while others might prefer to try out new things quite often. For me, i think that doing the same things every is such a monotonous life. I tend to have changes in my life based on my preference to challenging rather than boring life style, opportunities of meeting people from all walk of lives and also chances of discover my covered interests.

First and foremost, I, as a adolescence, think that carry out the same things everyday is boring. Wake up on 6.30am, go to school on 7.30am until 4.00pm, follow by doing the homework in the evening without any other activities. Do you think that this is the life style that works best for you? Even without any single activity other than those related to books? For me, this type of life is not a colourful and yet unhealthy life style. At least, we should put in some time for work out and also some for social interaction in the case mingle around with our classmates or friends.

We cannot deny that changes mean challenges to some people, yet trying out different things will expose us to various kinds people in the world. When you join different club you will meet different people with different interest. For instance, when you join a band, you will meet people who love music and play musical instruments meanwhile when you join a linguistic society, you can mix with people who like to enhance their linguistic knowledge. The more kinds of people we meet, the more suitable people that can help us in various situations. However, this also means that the more time we have to spend on catching up with them, yet, there will be more people that we can share our up in down in our lives.

On the other hand, some might claim that doing the same thing repeatedly may makes us master that particular technique. As the saying, 'Practise makes perfect.' We have to accept that the more times we do a thing, the better the result it will give, in the case of correct and proper practice. For example, when we practise playing an instrument over and over again under supervision of a qualified coach, we will master that instrument in the end. However, what if we do not have that particular gene in ourselves? What if one just do not have that talent? We cannot deny that if he or she practice continuously, he or she might success at the end, but how many people in todays world have that perseverance and determination to do so after failure by failure? One might just give up and think that he cannot success in ones entire life! Thus, sometime trying up new things will help us to uncover our hidden talents.

In short, i, personally think that we need some changes in our daily lives in order to meet people from all walk of lives, discover our new talents and also carry out the same routine is such a boring and meaningless life. In our life, we still need certain amount of challenges in order to make it more lively and more meaningful.

"Enjoy you life and try out new things as it might give you a better and wonderful life."

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Friend??

Whats the meaning of friend?? someone that say "hai" to us every time we meet them? someone who always share with us their happiness? someone who always borrow our shoulder when they are down? or those who we share all the up and down of our lives with?

Since the creation of mankind, human have been searching for companionship. Friendship is simply one of those basic instinct that we need in our lives. As the saying, 'No man is an island.' It is true that one cannot survive in this world which full of competition alone. However some might say that they are able to do so. But before you claim that you can, just think that are you able to live even without your family members, friends or co-worker??

For me, friends play a major role in my live. With their help, complicated tasks might seem easy. Whenever there is a big project to be done, i always get help from my friends, and i prefer to work in group as we can share the burden. Beside that, we can also share our information that we get from various sources. When we are sick and absent for classes, there is always someone who is willing to help us. Take notes for us, tell us what is happening in classes and also what lecturer taught on that particular days. When we are down, they will just turn up and console us, share with us our problem, not to mention during our up time.

But, we cannot deny that there is always some people who are in the category which come to you when you are success and just evaporate from the Earth when you fail to do some tasks. The whole world will laugh with you and you have to cry alone. This is the reality in today's community. What makes thing worst is when someone you trust betray you. Can you imagine what is the feeling when your secrete pass back to you from others? There is also those who tend to build their happiness on others' sufferances. They tend to pull your legs, and when you get angry, they will just teasing you and laughing at your monkey face when their tricks success.

In conclusion, we have to be careful when picking a friend. If you found out that one cannot be trusted, just make him a nodding head friend. Do not be stupid to share with someone your secrete who you just meet. We know how hurt is it when someone betraying us or gossiping about us, so do not ever do that on others s we do not what that happen on us or those who we care. Think twice before you act as it might hurt someone you really care about.


"TREAT OTHERS THE WAY AS YOU WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU"