When we fail, what can we do? and what should we do?
From my point of view, we need to keep on reminding ourselves about the following...
How hurt is it when we fail? How those around us treat us when we fail? How our beloved family members feel when we fail? We have to always keep all these feeling in our mind until we died so that we are always be aware of the feeling of disappointment, hurt, and perhaps guilty and looked down by others. When we are aware of all of these, we can always do our best in everything we do to avoid failure.
After all, we need to stand up and go on. Never let failure to slow us down. We know how hurt is it when we meet with failure. We know how our beloved feel when we fail. and... we know how our friends look at us when we fail.
When I was alone in a park few days ago, there was a scene about a child fell down accidentally while running, he quickly stood up and acted as nothing had took place and keep on running. Why a small kid like him was able to stand up immediately after he fell down but a strong and hard adult unable to stand up once he or she fall down in his or her life?! Some might say that it is just an easy job for the kid to stand up again after the fall, if they were that kid they are able to do so too. However, when comes to their failure in exam or business or in their lives respectively, why can't they just stand up after all? As we grow up, our strength and abilities to achieve higher goal and complete tougher task also increase, thus, we should be able to face all the tasks or failure in our lives without any excuse. If we are able to get 100% when we were in kindergarten, so we should be able to obtain 100% when we are in university. We cannot deny that tests might go harder but we do have more time to prepare and do gain more knowledge, experience more things as we grow older. In short, we are able to achieve what we had achieved in the past (in the sense of exam mark). It is all just depend on our will.
"Don't let failure stop us' but to make us stronger!"
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